Changing Middle-Aged concept is important to middle-aged people

Be a better humans kind.

Intermediate egret always have their own social cycle

You watch you face from the mirror , and suddenly discover that you are already 40 years old.

Many middle aged people find they easy to become frustrated with their job, family and friend. No matter how to think and how you regard yourself as a optimised person, when you are 40 years old , time is going fast and you got little achievement on life.

How to deal with this situation?
For most case, try to talk with fellows, share your feeling and thinking is always the best way to change.

Although they may not provide an exit way for you, but from a simple conversation, one can share their concern and try to find some reliefs to current situation. It is the simple way to deal with problems.

Think in another way
Sometimes I don’t understand why people alway think negative. Indeed think negative will not help you to solve problems.

The best ways for us to think is to think and find out a solution to the problems. Sometimes the situations is complicated, one cannot solve the problem alone with help, so, asking support from friends and seek for help is important in our life.

Try to make decision differently
I remember I also share the same feeing when I was 40 years old. I think I am not a success guy and I also have a lot of concern about my life as a middle aged people. It is not easy to do a breakthrough, both in my career and my life.

Lucky I have a good wife always become my best listeners, I share my view with hers at night during our short walk after dinner. Communications is important.

Also, I try to do something which I don’t do at past. For example , I go to a private farm to work as a volunteer, gather with people from different age and social background , some of them are students, young smart guy , and some of them are already retired. Working and taking with them change my view.

Besides, I try to do something I never do before , for example I become a students to study Japanese and make my time on weekend to observe insects and birds, these activities give me another view of the work and slowly correct my thinking.

Whatever change in our world, the cycle of nature remains up change

Think in another way and your life will become better.